What is one thing that sociopaths and narcissists can’t stand? Being exposed. As we know all too well, they will lie and manipulate everybody around them – and many times will even win them over. But the truth doesn’t lie.
One of the key ways they will abuse their victims is by enacting a smear campaign to discredit you. Good ol’ Benny boy is a pro at this. After our big announcement regarding a possible docuseries, he decided to violate his multiple restraining orders and judgments to post our personal information publicly on social media and try his best to discredit us.
Of course, the police are now involved, and his list of charges is growing exponentially, but what better way than to create a series of blogs to showcase to our readers the tactics of a sociopath and how we’re fighting back with the truth?
What Ben Says…
This is a verbatim post from Ben on one of his fake Instagram accounts:
This will be my last msg as this all has been too much for me. I wish there was a different ending to my story but this is my exit time. Please follow this page and show support. Thank you and good luck to all of the men out there who the system have failed to protect. #mentoo #domesticviolence #domesticviolenceawareness #menagainstabusivewomen #washingtonstatefamilylaw
Do you notice the suicide threat right from the get-go? Oh yes, this is Ben’s Borderline Personality Disorder in full effect. He sent this post to multiple friends and family in a desperate attempt to get their sympathy and support. He then goes on to flip the switch and claim that the system failed to protect him. Come again? Since when does the man who has in upwards of 10+ restraining orders get to claim this bullshit? No Ben….let’s get this straight. The system failed Athena, Amber, Sydney, DeAnna, Dee, Avery, Jordan, Daisy, Rachel, Michelle, Elizabeth, Katie and the list goes on.
This was another post Ben made. Let’s break it down shall we?
Two abusers of the system who systemically made false dv claims. Hmmm…Ben, you do realize that there are MULTIPLE women who have come forward. Are they abusers too? Didn’t think so. This isn’t even a complete list!!!
- Amber R. received a 5-year DV NCO Case No. 34463BC and a 1-year Protection Order [in Oregon] Case No. 19PO01759
- Athena N. received a 5-year DV NCO Case No.34463, a Violation of DV Order Case No.344627, Violation of DV Order Case No.21-9349, and her and her daughter received a Protection Order Case No. 12-3-03711-0 SEA. She also filed in 2015 Case No. 15-2-26671-3
- DeAnna R. received a 2-year DV-Protection Order Case No.19-2-07352-7 SEA, Violation of Harassment and DV order Case No. 9Z0844355 BEP and most recently received a 5 year no-contact order 9Z844355
- Diandra D. filed for a Harassment order Case NO. 67-000870
- Elizabeth N. received a 5-year DV NCO (it was lifted per her request) and she also filed for a DV restraining order Case No. 19-2-00456-3 and 20-2-00252-1.
- Michelle S. received a 10-year DV NCO Case No. 057-000633
- Harassment Case No. 97-2-1034
This link is to a court hearing where the Bothell prosecutor specifically explains he has 14 anti-harassment orders since 1998 from women against Mr. Johnson. Please note, this was in 2019 and there has been more since then.
They said they were afraid but then were physical with him later. Well Ben…do you mean that time you stalked your ex-wife Amber onto the freeway and made her pull over? That’s true, she did see you in person. Does that mean she wasn’t afraid? Hell no. Or, what about the fact you share a daughter with Athena making it nearly impossible not to see your sorry ass on occasion? Does it mean she’s not afraid of you. Again, hell no!!!
Anyone interested in the facts, look up court records at King County of the male filing multiple restraining orders against these two women. Yes, please do! Benny boy failed to tell the world that the two cases he’s referring to were dropped. In fact, Amber then was granted a ‘restrict abusive litigation’ against him in case #21-2-05726-4. Bruce Johnson of Davis, Wright, Tremaine was our lawyer on the case and can verify.
Athena recorded her court date when the judge dismissed the case against her as well. You can listen to the excerpt (Season 1, Episode 24 Marriage & Mistresses) here – timestamp 5:50.
These women are now profiting off of their stories for fame. Let’s just get this straight. We have NEVER received a dime for our story nor was it the reason to share with the world. As victims of Ben’s abuse for more than a decade, we have a right to share our true story to help protect other women. We have collected every single bit of evidence to corroborate what we say and stand behind EVERYTHING. We will not be silenced by this toxic predator. If for some reason, we reap any benefit financially down the line…so be it. Ben hasn’t paid child support in many months nor Amber for the divorce settlement. Maybe that money can put Sydney through college?
Ben would like to manipulate the storyline but the truth is that he’s a fraud, a cheater, a liar and generally a sick and disgusting human being.
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